Balloons and partners
Hello everyone,
I am a single woman, but what if you have a partner. Does she or he know?
Below a topic that started in “Queensday” (updates>respons from 29 mei Balloonmassage)
its about: Nice to have a partner that understands your Balloonfetish.
JBLOWSBALLOONS:
No I didn’t. I was with my wife and daughter. My wife knows all about my fetish but I would prefer that my daughter didn’t know. She always catches me looking at balloons and I think she may already wonder so I try to play it down. On Queen’s day that is not so easy to do
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Tags: balloon fetish, balloonfetish
May 6th, 2009 at 9:15 am
SYLVANA SAYS:
haha okay, imagine how you felt that day. both exciting and the feeling that this is really a fetish of yourself.
Nice to read that your wife knows about your fetish. Lot of people are alone in these kind of things..
sylvana
May 6th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Sylvana,
I am a very very lucky guy having such a great and understanding wife. There are not many people who would go along with such a fetish and I deeply appreciate that. My telling her was perhaps the best thing I could have done as it really saved our relationship. Balloons have been good for our relationship in that I am not interested in finding a new relationship nor am I drawn to other women as I have my balloons which keep me very content and they are the perfect fantasy object. Balloons never say no and it is purely up to my imagination to plan my sexual fantasies with them.
This is yet another reason that I am so lucky that such a simple thing can turn me on soo much. Imagine if the only thing that really turned me on was a traditional sex life! I think that balloons allow me to have a very intense sexuality without it threatening my relationship.
I admit that the next step for me is to meet others that share my passion for balloons as my wife is very supportive but let’s be honest, I think sometimes it is a bit much for her with my balloon thing. I respect that 150%. I don’t think she fully understands the powerful feelings that I get from balloons as they are a direct link to my pleasure zone in my brain and for that reason, I am interested in meeting others that have this link and share these feelings although they may not be as intense as mine. This started when I was three and now at 46, it has had 43 years to grow.
Anyway, always nice chatting with you.
Jim
May 6th, 2009 at 9:31 am
Hey Jim,
Thank you 4 being so open.
I am single but people around me know that theres always something that keeps me busy. When i began talking about the Balloons, they find this very strange. Now they are used to it and they talk about what they find beautiful and what not (colour etc) Also they ask me, did you do something with Balloons this week?
of did you buy nice Balloons? 
I am very very open about it and this makes it easy for me to talk about it with others. If they find it strange, so be it, look the other way. This is the way i deal with this, and 4 me it works
I am aware off, if you don’t have this (or you can’t be open), its difficult to tell your partner, friends. Thats why i find it so incredible great that a (your) partner understands it or try to understand the (your) Balloon fetish.
Your one H… of a lucky man
Fully looking into a partners mind is not easy, everyone has there secrets and a human brain is complex. What i do know is, if you have a fetish, deal with it cause its not gonna go away.
Because i work for years and years in my own studio, i know that people have the strangest fantasies. Sometimes i get it and sometimes i don’t have a clue what they want haha. Everyone has a different fetish. You can’t understand them all. I always hope they will be open about it, so it gives me an idea, what turns them on and why. But i am very curious ghighi
Thanks again your openess.
x
Sylvana
May 6th, 2009 at 4:57 pm
Sylvana,
You are so right, my fetish is not just going to just go away. I was really ashamed of my passion for balloons for most of my life and I tried for years to get rid of my addiction but it was pointless because balloons are just hardwired to my pleasure zone.
Growing up in America as a popular guy in school didn’t help either as why would I have this thing for balloons? I just could not figure it out.
Then something magical happened. One night about six years ago while surfing the internet I did a search for “balloon fetish” and I almost passed out when not only was there one site but pages and pages of sites. I was NOT alone and I was NOT some kind of sexual freak. In fact, since then, and thanks to the internet, I have found out that there are thousands and thousand of people like me. I think knowing that it was a bit odd but no longer just me helped me tell my wife about it.
Our relationship was at an all time low and sharing this with her even though it was a frightening moment wondering how she would react -would she laugh at me, think I was a pervert or worse reject it?. Luckily for me a big sigh of relief came across her face and she said, “is that it? Balloons? Oh, I was scared that it was something really heavy! Balloons? I can do balloons!”
That moment of sharing something so personal and so hidden really helped our relationship and gave us not only a big lift to our sexual relationship (well at least mine though I know she likes being able to turn me on so easily) and our relationship as a whole.
Not everyone reacts this way. I have heard horror stories of guys who have lost there loves because of this or have been laughed at or worse called a pervert and rejected. So I AM one H… of a lucky guy and I think that my balloon fetish actually makes us stronger. I have come out to some people but not many. I have been active in the balloon community but I have not yet met someone in person who really shares and understands this passion, these special feelings I just get from balloons. I don’t try to understand it or explain it anymore. It just IS.
Lucky for you that you can be so open and honest about it with your friends.I am not ashamed I but it is something that is a shared secret with my wife and I think that is special to her so I keep it to myself for the most part. But I have to admit, I really would like to meet another person just to convince myself that I am not really alone in this.
If you have any questions about my fetish, feel free to ask. I’ll tell you anything you want to know but you probably already know everything about it.
Thanks for the kind words,
JIm